Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Falling Wednesday - Can We Turn the Falling Tide?

This is a post from 2015.  I've edited it slightly, including updating ages of various people mentioned.

I also wanted to add one example I found last night.  David Freeman, the author of the book "One Hundred Things You Need to Do Before You Die" (inspiration for the movie "The Bucket List") died, at age 47, after a fall.  So, it isn't the elderly.  It's all of us.

Here's the post:

The headlines, past and present, produce fear.  Especially if you are a senior citizen or care for one.

"George H.W. Bush [a former United States President, now 93 years old] fell and broke his neck bone", read the headlines in July.  This is a man who parachuted for his 90th birthday.

Actor Robert Culp - dead from a fall at age 79 in 2010. I remember him from a TV series of the 1960's called "I Spy".  The other starring actor became famous, too, but eventually in a different way.

Singer Eddie Arnold, dead after he fell and broke a hip in 2008, just shy of his 90th birthday.

Hillary Clinton, age 69, who ran for President of the United States, has had several well publicized falls.  One ended up as a topic of discussion in her Presidential campaign.

A man by the name of William Bechill, a man famed in the aging advocacy community, died in 2007 after he fell on ice.  He was 78.

Is falling in old age something that can't be prevented?  Is there any hope for seniors as they age?  Do we in the areas of harsh winter weather (I live in one of those areas) have to become prisoners in our homes due to aging?

Many are now trying to turn this around.  And, seniors are ready to listen.

Seniors such as my mother in law's former next door neighbor of over 50 years, and good friend, is one of them.  She is 85 (I hope she doesn't mind me giving out her age) and she and I grew up a mile - and 20 years - apart in the Bronx, a borough of New York City.

This woman, a widow for many years, still leads an active life, and has lived in the same house for over 50 years.  She walks up to four miles a day.  She travels.  And when I demonstrated the exercises I had learned in my falls prevention class during a recent visit, she was eager to learn them.

Why?  Because she has fallen.  Of course, she said, "I got right up".  She didn't want her companions to see her lying on the cobblestone streets of the city she was visiting.

Except that it was a fall.

Fortunately for this woman, she is not in denial.

If your area has falls prevention classes, don't be shy.  Take them. 

It can't hurt.  I've lost a little on my waist.  I am feeling the difference as I walk my imaginary tightrope.

In just minutes away, you can gain optimism.  Perhaps we, all together, can turn the falling tide.

14 comments:

  1. By the way, swimming- while fantastic (probably the best) exercise- is not going to help us prevent falling. We need to add other routines to ensure our balance.

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    1. 100% correct. Though it's not swimming, water aerobics (years of it) did nothing for my balance. I should have been more diversified.

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  2. Hard to prevent a fall but, of course going for a fall prevention class, if there be one, might actually help so many and not just the seniors! My 80-year-old father-in-law fell four weeks back and ended up fracturing his shoulder. He has been extremely fit and very active for his age so he is recovering well but I know for a fact that many falls of folks that age often end up fatal.

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    1. So true, Esha. Yours is indeed a cautionary story.

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  3. Having just downsized and moved to a 55+ community, I find your post pertinent and helpful. I had no idea there was such a thing as "falls prevention" classes. I'll do a little research and mention it on our community's FB page. Thanks for bringing light to an important subject.

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    1. Lisa, I hope those classes exist in you community.

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  4. This made me realize how I have extra awareness of my father's footing (he's 84) when we're out someplace. It just seems to easy for the fall to occur.

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  5. I didnt know about all this about these people. I think its important to register in an anti fall class to be more careful in the old age.

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    1. Yes. And again, I hope they exist where you live.

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  6. What a good idea. Your friend sounds amazing, good for her!

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    1. She is. I hope to see her again in November.

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  7. Falling happens to anyone at any age. We all need to work on this.

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  8. Accidents do happen. And yes, falling seems to top the list.

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